'You're so lucky." "That's so unusual." "I've never heard of that happening." These are just some of the reactions I get when I tell others what it's like to be one of my dad's many caregivers.
Dad, an 83-year-old Korean War veteran, a native Bostonian from an Irish-American family with 10 children, and a retired steamfitter, lives alone in his two-bedroom apartment, in an over-55 complex in Patchogue. Our mom, Mary, his beloved bride of 58 years, passed away in March, and life hasn't been quite the same.
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